responsibility...

Currently at my home sweet home..Lari dari Manjung yang panas gilerr dan more to lari dari OnG posting yang stress..This week relax sikit sebab Prof H takde alhamdulillah...

Balik je rumah hibernating dulu..Mana tak gemuk Jannah oit kalau asyik tidur je..I don't care sebab gunakan masa yang ada sebelum housemen ni untuk tidur puas and enjoy to the fullest...

Malam ni nak share my own opinion..maybe I'm wrong but like I said my opinion...Aku bukan jenis yang akan judge orang straight forward..Ada orang yang tak percaya..Ehh dia sekolah agama ke??Nape dia tak pakai tudung labuh???Awat tak alim pun??

I give all of you two situation...

One:

You pakai tudung biasa but still tutup aurat yang penting dan wajib ditutup..Make sure tudung tak jarang..lengan jangan dedahkan dan pakai stokin..You tak over bila bercakap dengan lelaki..Cakap bila perlu and tak gedik...

two:

You pakai tudung labuh tapi still bersembang dengan lelaki..keluar dengan lelaki..Ajak lelaki datang rumah..yes, I know tak salah sebab lelaki tu kat luar..But people this is not UK or oversea or whatever...This is Malaysia..different culture...

Kat sini aku bukan nak salahkan sape2 sikit pun tak..Ni opinion jela..Jangan judge bila dia budak sekolah agama dia perfect..padahal bese je..Janji yang penting perempuan tu tahu batas2 dia..dan apa yang wajib..

Aku tak salahkan and tak ambik isu pun pasal tudung ni...Tapi kalau kita dah try nak jadi alim dan pakai tudung labuh semua tu...kita ni macam carry responsibility untuk jaga image tu...Apa perasaan bila non muslim yang pandang rendah??tak ke malu...huhu..Apa yang korang nak jawab??

nak jawab ehh okay je takde pape pun..takkan la kann..macam takde beza je agama dorang dengan agama kita..kita as a muslim kena la tunjuk contoh yang baik..

p/s: soryy if post ni agak sensitif..I'm not perfect..still learning to be a good muslimah...ni just opinion...takde niat nak judge sape2

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